【篇一】
Beginning meals, focusing on civility and decorum, to pay attention to his "eat phase." Develop good habits meals. General should pay attention to the following points : Let elders chopsticks to eat meals first move, or heard elders said : "It is a blessed," you Dongkuai. not ahead of the elders in front. At meal time, to Duanqiwan, thumbs withhold CD, forefinger and middle finger, ring finger deduction north and palms empty. Duanwan not rest on the table facing the bowl meal to eat is not only indecent, and oppression stomach and digestive effects. Take their food, from close to the plate or face its own disk side dish, not from the middle plate or rely on someone to the side of the dish. can not use chopsticks Garnish the platter to the yard turned away "searching", the eyes are not focused on old vegetable dishes, a fed sandwiches nor too much. Encountered their favorite dishes, not as occasions to make a clean sweep of the general neighborhood, not simply putting a plate in front of their own tiers. eat special food, to take into account the table of the parents and elder sister and younger brother. If diced vegetables have little, and you want it "sweep" clean, the table should be consulted about the views, others have said do not eat, you can doom it. To shut up chewing, vending, which will not only be conducive to digestion, as well as table etiquette demands. Never opens its big mouth, stuff their faces with massive, the mountain, not in the dish meals, neck, opens its big mouth, drowned tongue blow to cover vegetables; Add a not too much food imports, Otherwise people will leave a mixed phase and greed impression. Meals must act to put some. Take their food, not to meet neighbor, not like the vegetables appropriated on the table, not soup poured over and not eating dripping on the table. Mouth stained with rice, or meals paper napkins erase lightly, not with the tongue licking. Chew food, but they will not issue a "lifted my head. My partner," "physically grumble physically mouth, and turn her head to the rear. eating or chewing voice of sand there are sputum, to leave the table to picture. In the course of dinner, Tim to maximize their own meals and initiative or "voices. I containing food, best not to talk with others, to restrain jokes to avoid mouthful of food and exhales, or choke into the trachea, danger; really need to talk with their families, should they spoke softly. Spit out the bones, Fishbone, vegetable residue, use chopsticks or hands from then out on the table before them, not spit directly to the desktop or on the ground. If coughing, sneezing, or to hand handkerchiefs to seniors Tim meals, take their food. Encountered seniors Tim meals for himself and take their food, to thank. Meals to concentrate, some students in a small meal to watch television or read newspaper, this is the bad habits, not health, affects digestion and absorption of food, but also damage eyesight.
開始用餐,要講究文明禮貌，要注意自己的“吃相”。養成良好的用餐習慣。一般應注意以下幾點： 讓長輩先動碗筷用餐，或聽到長輩說：“大家一塊吃吧”，你再動筷，不能搶在長輩的前面。 吃飯時，要端起碗，大拇指扣住碗口，食指、中指、無名指扣碗底，手心空着。不端碗伏在桌子上對着碗吃飯，不但吃相不雅，而且壓迫胃部，影響消化。 夾菜時，應從盤子靠近或面對自己的盤邊夾起，不要從盤子中間或靠別人的一邊夾起，更不能用筷子在菜盤子裏翻來倒去地“尋尋覓覓”，眼睛也不要老盯着菜盤子，一次夾菜也不宜太多。遇到自己愛吃的菜，不可如風捲殘雲一般地猛吃一氣，更不能乾脆把盤子端到自己跟前，大吃特吃，要顧及同桌的父母和姐弟。如果盤中的菜已不多，你又想把它“打掃”乾淨，應徵詢一下同桌人的意見，別人都表示不吃了，你纔可以把它吃光。 要閉嘴咀嚼，細嚼慢嚥，這不僅有利於消化，也是餐桌上的禮儀要求。決不能張開大嘴，大塊往嘴裏塞，狼吞虎嚥的，更不能在夾起飯菜時，伸長脖子，張開大嘴，伸着舌頭用嘴去接菜;一次不要放入太多的`食物進口，不然會給人留下一副饞相和貪婪的印象。 用餐的動作要文雅一些。夾菜時，不要碰到鄰座，不要把盤裏的菜撥到桌子上，不要把湯潑翻，不要將菜湯滴到桌子上。嘴角沾有飯粒，要用餐紙或餐巾輕輕抹去，不要用舌頭去舔。咀嚼飯菜，嘴裏不要發出“叭叭”、“呱嘰呱嘴，並把頭向後方轉。吃飯嚼到沙粒或嗓子裏有痰時，要離開餐桌去吐掉。 在吃飯過程中，要儘量自己添飯，並能主動嘰”的聲音。口含食物，最好不要與別人交談，開玩笑要有節制，以免口中食物噴出來，或者嗆入氣管，造成危險;確需要與家人談話時，應輕聲細語。 吐出的骨頭、魚刺、菜渣，要用筷子或手取接出來，放在自己面前的桌子上，不能直接吐到桌面上或地面上。如果要咳嗽，打噴嚏，要用手或手帕捂住給長輩添飯、夾菜。遇到長輩給自己添飯、夾菜時，要道謝。 吃飯時要精神集中，有些小同學在吃飯時看電視或看書報，這是不良的習慣，既不衛生，又影響食物的消化吸收，還會損傷視力。
【篇二】
Personal privacy, is not willing to open, no stranger to inquire about the secret, personal or private things.
In international social life, people generally pay respect individual privacy, and respect the privacy, as if a person in interpersonal skills have upbringing, respect and understanding can be an important sign of object interaction.
In international social life, how many, the personal income has been foreigners as their faces, is taboo others directly or indirectly. Remove wages, those who reflect personal economic conditions, such as tax amount, problems and bank deposit, the stock returns and housing area, car models, resorts, apparel brands, entertainment, etc, and personal income because, do not fit.
In general, the actual age abroad as "core", and "confidential for old" words taboo. The love of friends and relatives, junior, marriage and family life. In some countries, with straight talk about this problem, is likely to be regarded as boring, even to think is "sexual harassment". When chatting, generally dislike others for their own health concern.
Foreigners are put his own private residence as a private domain. They do not like the telephone number, residential address personal private information disclosure as pure ". We ask for others, such as "is where people", "what school", "what did before, that is normal. Yet these contents as foreigners ", "commercial secrets of the object against ask communication freely, without ever find each other" hukou ".
In international social life of faith and politics. In other foreign ask: "what are you doing recently?", "why haven't seen you for this kind of" foreigners, but very taboo problem to others who seek this kind of problem, not ever curiosity, failing to respect other people, is "ulterior motives.
We mentioned above, these problems are personal privacy issues. To respect the privacy of foreign friends, he must avoid involving these problems.
1, looking for similar habits.
Everyone has his own personality, hobbies, and interact in a way similar habits, relatively speaking, people everywhere, the problem is how to search to find you. First to watch each other's characteristics, age, social background and career life view, if both parties can pay attention to similar to the common language, and resonance.
2 and grasp the discretion of itself.
If a person is more outstanding, specialty to win the appreciation of others, and be happy with your nature, but if, instead of perfection, make the person has a kind of feeling that if the upper occasional exposes some personal shortcomings, but that will attract people close to you.
3, pay attention to the instrument and temperament.
Of course, treat people hospitable and natural than apathy introverted people are attractive. But the first meeting, this is nonsense doesn't give a person a kind of sedate feeling.